On September 3rd, 2004, Equinox was asked,
Does fate come into love?
EQ: We believe that sometimes two entities are meant to act out a
particular dance by the souls. If thee are meaning that as fate,
then yes. But thee can still choose not to do the dance.
Dost thou understand? Everything is ultimately thy choice, even
if thee don’t realize it. If thee have an accident and thy car is
completely destroyed and it was not thy fault, somebody hit thee.
Did thee have a choice in this?
EQ: Absolutely thee did. Thee could have chose to drive
slower and not been at the point where this entity would have hit
thee. Thee could have chosen to drive faster. Thee could
have chosen a different route. Thee could have chosen not to
drive at all. Everything is a choice. There be no accidents
So, then it’s not an accident that a person was hit. Is that
what you’re saying?
EQ: Absolutely not. Thy soul has chosen to have that
So, at a certain level it is an informed choice.
But not at our conscious level.
EQ: Sometimes it truly is a conscious choice. If thee look
back on it thee will think, “Oh my. I really set myself up for
that.” We will use an example. How many entities have thee
known, or thee have done this thyself, have worked a job thee hated and
bitched and bitched and then, when thee were fired, thee were
shocked? Thee do not think thee set this up consciously?
Creating your own reality.
Why create the stress? Go into business for yourself.
EQ: Which is also stressful for many.
It can be at times.
EQ: Yes. Everyone cerates their stress. As we said,
some people would never want the responsibility of the constant
uncertainty of their own business. They would rather work for one
entity for fifty years, get a watch at the end of this and retire to a
Returning to your example of the car accident, unless you could
foresee the future, how could you have made a conscious decision -
conscious decision - to be the passenger in the car that got hit?
EQ: We did not say a conscious decision.
Or even an unconscious decision unless you know the future?
EQ: Dost thou believe that everything is random upon Terra?
Not necessarily, no.
EQ: Dost thou believe thee have the incapability of sensing in
advance a particular possibility? Let us use an example.
How many times, perhaps, have you ridden with a person and thought to
thyself, “Hmm, I’m not so sure that I like the way this entity drives,”
but yet thee drive with them over and over again? Is that not a
conscious choice? And when an accident occurs…
In that instance, yes.
EQ: And we believe that this happens very, very, very more
frequently than entities on Terra want to admit.
And yet, the driver of the car you were in, it was not his fault
EQ: Again, what we are saying is, all things happen for a
purpose. All things have been chosen. How thee experience
these choices are up to thee and set new choices.
In my impression that’s saying either you have foresight or…
EQ: Thee do.
Or predestination. Do you believe in predestination?
EQ: We believe certain things are - thy soul has certain
experiences it has chosen to have in this lifetime, yes. How
those experiences manifest and when is up to the soul. We believe
that thee are confusing thyself with thy soul. Are thee?
I don’t know.
EQ: Let us explain. The soul is the entity that is reborn,
over and over again. Dost thou understand this thing?
EQ: We will use the vehicle, this being, as an example.
This being’s soul is acting on the stage as the entity Joanee.
Joanee has been this soul’s role in this life for so long that Jonie
actually thinks she’s running the show. She really does.
She isn’t; her soul is. For it is the soul which is having the
experiences. The role is Joanee. This would be as though
thee were acting in the play “Hamlet”, and the actor that was playing
Hamlet began to believe that he was really Hamlet. Dost thou
understand? This is the difference. Thy soul knows.
It is the ego that convinces itself that it is being put upon.
Dost thou understand?
EQ: Become more in touch with thy soul. Thee will see thy
How do we do that?
EQ: Meditation. Reflection. All entities on Terra
EQ: Reflection is an inward-looking. Saying, “Hmm, the last
time I was in a predicament like this, this is what I did. Hmm,
didn’t work real well. I’m doing it again. Oh my!
Shall I change this a bit?” Dost thou understand?
EQ: It is learning thy lessons because thee are aware of what thy
lessons might be.
Life is pretty much full of lessons. That’s what being on this
planet is all about. It’s one giant school.
EQ: What being on this planet is about is having
experiences. Now, thee can have an experience and find it
joyous. Thee can have the same experience and find it
tedious. Thee can have the same experience and hate it. Can
thee not? It’s all perception.
How can we teach our children positive perception of their lessons?
EQ: Example is a very good way. Dost thou understand?
If each time thee have an experience that thee do not feel is as good
as thee wanted it to be, if thee say, “Hmm. There must be
something wondrous I can learn from this,” and, “Thank thee, Universe,
for providing me this wonderful opportunity,” can thee see how this
comes through to the children differently than, “Oh, shit! It’s
happening again!” or, “Why does everybody hate me? Why does
this keep happening to me?” Dost thou see how entities upon Terra
often say these words? And the children hear them and believe
them. And they will, if thee listen, thee will hear thyself in
their speech. What a wondrous gift.
© 2004 Myama, Inc.